The Lord’s Prayer: Elli Collins

Elli Collins, one of the confirmands this year, wrote her own version of the Lord’s Prayer

Our Father, who created this beautiful world, I praise your name.

You have created this beautiful kingdom,

where everyone is respected and differences don’t matter.

I am thankful for what I have. 

I am blessed with a family that loves me, and I have food on the table.

Forgive me God, for everything that I have done wrong. Sometimes I am selfish and unaware of others, but you always love me. I can forgive others because you have forgiven me.

Help me to not sin against you, and to always worship you.

For you have let us live in this wonderful world with you. Amen.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Princeton UMC in the News

In “Faith and Activism: a discussion with three religious leaders in Princeton,  Nora Peachin interviewed  Rev. Lukata Mjumbe (of Witherspoon Street Presbyterian Church), Sohaib Nazeer Sultan (Muslim life coordinator at Princeton University), and Rev. Jenny Smith Walz (Princeton UMC lead pastor), “about the intersection of faith and activism in their own lives, and how they view their responsibilities as religious leaders in the fight against injustice and inequality.”

The article told about Princeton UMC’s  five-day prayer vigil to end racism, closing with a ceremony held on the church lawn. Here is a link to the article, and here are some excerpts:

Participants prayed for an end to systemic racism and for the courage to do anti-racism work. Prayers such as those are also a form of activism. “It moves us on to next steps,” Walz said. “We continue to hear what God invites us to do next.”

The church website provided a list of anti-racism resources that included books, films, organizations, songs, and more.

Her faith underlies everything she does, including her activism, she said. The moral teachings of her religion have compelled her to fight against injustice.

No matter what form it takes, activism is slow work, Walz said. Changing systems, communities, and organizations to eradicate inequality and uplift the vulnerable takes time. “It goes little bit by little bit, relationship by relationship,” she said.

Being a faith leader is about bringing all people together, including those being pushed to the margins economically and culturally, Walz said.

All three (faith leaders) described seeking a fine balance between comforting their congregants and making them uncomfortable by asking them to reckon with their own privilege and bias or acknowledge their complicity in injustice.

“We’re here to comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable,” Walz said. She is constantly juggling these dual objectives — offering care, compassion, and support to her members while simultaneously challenging them to better themselves and their communities.

“The deepest struggle for us as Christians is to actually believe we are all God’s beloved children,” she said. “We don’t always believe it with our actions and reflect it in our whole lives. There has to be a certain discomfort to make that change. There’s a way the discomfort is ultimately healing.”

Walz works in a relatively privileged area of Princeton, and was initially daunted by the task of challenging her members to question their own biases and complicity. She knows preaching on oppression will prevent some people from attending her sermons, but said that does not stop her.

“I have to find the courage to know that people aren’t always going to agree,” she said. “I hope I can offer a space for people to learn.”

Princeton UMC Prayer Vigil Culminates in Evening Service

Before May 25, 2020, 8 minutes and 46 seconds was an innocuous span of time.  That changed tragically on the day George Floyd died after being held down  for 8 minutes and 46 seconds by a police officer who ignored his repeated cries of “I can’t breathe.“  On June 9, as a culminating event for its five-day prayer vigil to stop racism, Princeton UMC invited the public to participate in a service of prayer and personal witness against systemic racism. 

Held on the front lawn of the church, the service began with a Time of Silence and Prayer accompanied by the somber music of bells and ending with a reading of the names of Black men, women, and children victimized by police. Here is a link to the program. 

Pastor Jenny Smith Walz then invited those gathered to “put words to the pain and struggle that has occurred for so long” by sharing their thoughts and experiences with racism.  Many of those who shared think of themselves as caring, as sensitive to the struggles of minorities, but as one volunteer said, “after talking to people of color, I realize racism goes deeper than I ever imagined.”  Another, who grew up in the North during segregation, recalled visiting friends in the South when she was a young woman. Getting off the bus she saw on the water fountain the sign Whites Only. “I never talked about what I saw with my friends during that visit, but I returned home realizing how my Black friends must have felt,” she said.

Evangeline Burgers warned against complacency, saying “You can get comfortable reading books [about racism] and going to rallies; you can start to think ‘I am doing something.’ I pray that I don’t let a day go by that I forget my white privilege.”  Princeton UMC’s director of children’s ministry closed with a fervent prayer” “Don’t let the fires in our hearts tonight be extinguished.” 

Pastor Ginny Cetuk closed the sharing witness part of the service by acknowledging that racism is tolerated in society and our institutions – even the church.  “These have been a challenging and frightening few weeks, and I  get so very discouraged.  But I also realize that I am not alone, that together, we can make significant change.”

As the service moved toward its conclusion, Pastor Jenny challenged those there and those watching virtually to continue to explore and study our own part in contributing to racism in our communities and to pray for guidance observing that “prayer can feel like a wih we put up to Heaven, but prayer creates space in us for God to come in, for the Holy Spirit to show what we need to understand about ourselves.” As she spoke, she picked up a glass jar that had been filled with beans, a Witness Jar.  “Thirty-seven million Black people live in the United States.  Take a jar, a cup, any container and gather these 37 million represented by beans, buttons, coins; say their names as you pray and find a way to keep them in front of us,” she asked.

Prayer and work to end racism can continue. To access resources – and to contribute resources you have found, go to this link on PrincetonUMC.org.)

 

Recommended Reading: Gregg Louis Taylor

Meet Gregg Louis Taylor, author of Here, Now, with You, subtitled ‘Six Movements of Compassion for Life and Leadership.

Taylor’s book is described by the publisher, Abingdon Press.

Grounded in the real-life context of experience and the encouragement of relatable stories, plus providing an interactive process for meaningful conversations, reflection, and application, two questions shape the book’s content:

1. What every day experiences open the door to compassion’s movement in our lives?

2. How do we recognize and embrace such encounters to cultivate rich expressions of “compassionating” lives and leadership?

By learning to be compassionate just as God is, we become more authentically connected to one another and expand our awareness of the God who is always here.

 

Virtual Celebration for Ginny Cetuk

Last year we were able to celebrate IN-PERSON with Norm and Ginny Cetuk. This year —  on Zoom!

On Sunday, June 28, following the worship service, PUMC will host a virtual celebration on Zoom for the retirement of Rev. Ginny Cetuk and her husband Norm. Pastor Ginny will preach that morning. 

  1. Plan on being with us for the virtual Zoom celebration.    The event will officially begin at 11:45.  Please plan on joining by 11:30 so that we can make sure everyone is connected and can see and hear before we begin the actual event at 11:45.  The Zoom link will be active by 11:15, so you can log in any time after that.  Here is the Zoom information:

If you are joining by video, click on this link to join the Virtual Celebration

If you are joining just by phone, dial the following phone number and enter the Meeting ID and Password when prompted:  1-929-436-2866, Meeting ID: 853 667 0465, Password: 7862.

If you have never used Zoom before, please click on these pointers for more information on how to use Zoom.

We will end our celebration with a virtual toast to Ginny and Norm, so make sure you have a drink of your choice handy for the toast.  We’ll unmute everyone at that point so that we can all speak our combined blessings together.

If you have any questions, please contact LaVerna Albury at Lalbury8@gmail.com, 609-658-3830 or Iona Harding at ifkharding@gmail.com, 973-479-2783.

Thank you so much for participating in this celebration.  Ginny and Norm will be missed!

Relocation Report: Pat H.

Pat H. reports that she moved to North Carolina in 2013, following her family. “I don’t miss the snow at all!” She prefers to be represented, visually, by one of her beautiful quilts.

PAST What persons/activities/tasks/committees helped you grow in your faith at PrincetonUMC?
I was greatly influenced and grew in my faith by Bill Jacobsen and Peggy Fullman who led multiple systematic Bible studies.  Jim Harris, Ruth Woodward, and Beverly Burdwood encouraged my creative endeavors.  For the Princeton UMC, I used photographic skills for the new member slide shows, made artwork for posters and capital campaign publicity, and served on Outreach and Membership committees at various times.  I was the second church webmaster during the years that we were part of the Web Empowered Church (that organization no longer exists) and was a circuit rider for the NJ Annual Conference to help other churches set up websites. Trey Gillette set up the website that followed the Web Empowered Church site and I was the webmaster for that until I moved away in 2013.  Abu Ibrahim is now doing a wonderful job with that website.
PRESENT: What is your current job, family, or retirement situation? What milestones did you or family members experience since you moved?
I am currently retired. I do a lot of photography and quilting.  I mostly make baby quilts for my family and for the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at our Hospital. I make port pillows for cancer patients and an occasional Habitat for Humanity home dedication ceremony quilt. I love to read, swim, bike, walk on our gorgeous NC beaches, and visit family.
HOW are you and your /your church/workplace congregation trying to build community despite social distancing? Or how are you coping with stress? 
I currently belong to a large Southern Baptist church which does a lot of local disaster recovery work (meals and construction) following hurricanes and this Corona Virus period.  I am involved in a Bible study and Sunday school Class.  Our worship services will resume this Sunday, May 31. We have not had as many Corona Virus cases and deaths as you have had in NJ and surrounding states. I have had plenty to do at home during the Stay at Home period here but things are now beginning to return to normal.

Pointers on Using Zoom

If you have never used Zoom, you may want to run a test on your device (laptop, tablet or smart phone) before Sunday’s event. You can run a test by clicking the following: https://zoom.us/test. By running a test first, you will already have downloaded the Zoom app onto your device prior to the event.

On the day of the event, you will click this link to our Zoom event:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/8536670465?pwd=ZkdtNGM5Mi9xaUk5ejZMWWF6aHZjQT09
You will see the following prompt:
Do you want to allow this page to open “Zoom.us?” Click “Allow.”

When you enter Zoom, you will automatically be on mute. This means that you will be able to hear the speaker, but we can’t hear you. This eliminates background noise from disrupting the presentations. If there is a red line through your microphone icon, you are muted. To unmute so that we can hear you, click on the microphone icon. You should be muted throughout the event until the very end when Evangeline will unmute everyone.
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Make sure that your camera is on so that we can see you. Find and click on the icon that looks like a movie camera. If there is a red line through the camera, that means that your camera is not on. Click on the icon to turn your camera on. If your camera is not on, that isn’t a problem. You will still be able to see the event – we just won’t be able to see you.
You will also want to make sure that you are in “Speaker View” and NOT “Gallery View.”

Up at the top right corner of your screen, once you are in Zoom, you will see either the words Speaker View or Gallery View. If it says Gallery View, that means you are in Speaker View. In Speaker View, the person who is speaking is who everyone can see – they are in the full screen. This is what you want. Otherwise, you will see tiny pictures of everyone that is in the Zoom meeting – that is Gallery View. So make sure you are in Speaker View so that you can see the speakers and the videos. It is very important when you are
in Speaker View, however, that you are muted! Otherwise, every time you make even the tiniest sound, you will be on the full screen and we will all see you instead of the speaker or video. So, make sure you are on Speaker View and you are muted – make sure there is a red line through your microphone. At the very end of the event, for the toast, we will ask you to click on Gallery View so that Ginny can see all of your smiling faces at one time.
If you are just listening to the event on your phone, you will call the following number: 1-929-436-2866.

When prompted for the Meeting ID enter: 853 667 0465. When prompted for the Password enter:
7862.